Just recently I had a young man (and that’s me being nice) attempt to get to know me via Instagram in my DMs. The basis of the conversation was very casual for me but how he was coming at me just sounded crazy. Saying things like “I have feelings for you”, “I feel it in my heart”, “I just want you to be happy” and all this other foolishness. He kept saying girls were always on games with him and blah blah blah. So I kindly told him that if you talk to females like this that’s most likely why females leave you alone or don’t feel like being bothered. So then that’s when I became fat, ugly, a bitch and anything he could think of to attack my physical appearance. Now I was not offended or hurt by any of what was said but it got me thinking. As someone who’s been a plus size female for basically my whole life I’ve noticed that men will try to prey on bigger women because they feel like they have low self esteem. It’s sad but it’s true. Even at my heaviest I’ve always had confidence in myself! I learned to love the skin I was in because I realized no one was going to love me the way I love myself! Just because a woman is bigger doesn’t mean she isn’t confident! It’s actually sickening that men prey on plus size women the way that they do! So ladies continue to LOVE ❤️ YOURSELF! Don’t settle for anything less than what you deserve! To all My PLUS SIZE QUEENS 👸🏾 don’t let anybody bring you down because you don’t fit society’s standards! SELF LOVE WILL ALWAYS BE THE BEST LOVE 🖤💋